F.R.I.E.N.D.S

I always had the habit of making friends .... Thing is that If I analyse the friends I have, those friends who are close to me are not whom I delibrately tried to make friends . Sounds confusing right ? . let me explain it . In my whole life I tried to make some people friends , but from my experience I found it out those don't last for long. meanwhile in course of life some acquaintance will develop into deep friendship . you won't know that till it becomes so deep.

I got some friends in that catergories when I started working in Bangalore. Some friends whom I live with in my house . We all were staying in as Paying Guests for the first 3-4 months. At the end of that period we were thinking about renting a house and moving out. there were abt 10 people in that PG. I knew only some 4 of them before I came here , those who were in my college and one was my roommate in hostel and other 2 my classmates. We were first thinking of taking two seprate houses of the whole 10 people . But some people were insiting on staying together which turned out to be a nice thing that has happened to me in my life ...

We some how got a house which can accomodate these 10 people . But now I can proudly say due to the initiative taken by some people at that time I got some friends which by I cannot get anywhere else even if I deliberately pick and choose . Now I cannot think of living seperately in two houses . Once I was talking about the wish of going onsite and one of my roommates told me you can go onsite sometime later , only now we all can stay together. Later I came to know that he had more than one chance of going onsite but he wants to stay with us . That was so touching ... where will you get such friends ?

Meanwhile in my bangalore life I intentionally made some friends . I don't know whether in a longer run I can maintain that friendship or not . even if I try to maintain that , the friends I got in such a manner will maintain that .... will they ?